Married 8 years. Worked my butt off when we were dating/engaged and never managed to go to college, but he did. I’ve always wanted to go. We finally got somewhat stable the last few years, so I enrolled. A little over a year of FT in, I’m busting my ass again, not working at all since I started, because he told me “don’t work, just focus on studying and getting good grades, and finish as soon as you can.” I’m a fucking idiot. He left me last week with literally no warning. I have no job, no money, no friends, and the only 2 family members I have are 1000 miles away. Been going to classes because I have no idea what else to do but fuck.
Good for you on losing that deadweight! It is going to be hard and you will cry in desperation but you will come out of this single, stronger, wiser and more accomplished than ever.
He is a dirtbag and a lowlife for doing that to you.
This is adulthood…
Married 8 years. Worked my butt off when we were dating/engaged and never managed to go to college, but he did. I’ve always wanted to go. We finally got somewhat stable the last few years, so I enrolled. A little over a year of FT in, I’m busting my ass again, not working at all since I started, because he told me “don’t work, just focus on studying and getting good grades, and finish as soon as you can.” I’m a fucking idiot. He left me last week with literally no warning. I have no job, no money, no friends, and the only 2 family members I have are 1000 miles away. Been going to classes because I have no idea what else to do but fuck.
I’m sorry, I had assumed you were a young student. I hope that things get better for you.
Good for you on losing that deadweight! It is going to be hard and you will cry in desperation but you will come out of this single, stronger, wiser and more accomplished than ever. He is a dirtbag and a lowlife for doing that to you.
Stay strong, sister!