• ubermeisters@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Almost like… money doesn’t actually make you happy.

    Except we all know it does. To a point. Then it makes you miserable, because you turn into a them.

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      1 year ago

      Enough money helps you have the time, energy, and nutrition to craft happiness. You can pay someone to do the lawn, clean the house, and handle some day to day tasks. You can sleep without worrying if you’ll afford food and a roof tomorrow. You can get healthcare.

      After that it’s up to you. If you put the money in charge you’ll be miserable. If you spend all that extra time going down conspiracy rabbit holes you’ll be miserable and try to make everyone else miserable. If you craft some hobbies that you enjoy, get in shape, maybe learn to play an instrument, go rock climbing, travel to see the sights, and generally don’t worry about what loud people on the Internet do or think of you then you’ll have a pretty good shot at happiness.

      Money can’t buy happiness, but it can give you the opportunity to find it.

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        1 year ago

        Kanye has really gone off the rails but still one of the lyrics he got most right…“Having money’s not everything, not having it is.” If you’ve got money, it doesn’t make you happy. But not having money is crippling and debilitating.

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          1 year ago

          That is exactly it. I’ve been middle class. I’ve been poor as fuck. My mental health much prefers middle class.