Fancy cupcakes are 70% icing, really not that nice and a waste of money

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    The “phones are bad and suck your life away” crowd has gotten way too big. Yes, it’s easy to waste time on them, but that’s just something you gotta learn, like not watching TV series all night. You’re a grown up, deal with it. Also maybe you feel bad for spending all that time on your phone just because feeling bad for that feels cool? It’s actually your life you can spend it however you want. You don’t need to be productive or successful to be a worthy human. Be a lazy shit that plays stupid phone games while on a train to work.

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    The contemporary disdain for postmodernism was a Psy op designed to completely destroy philosophy from the inside. And the supposed replacements for post modernism (metamodernism or whatever) were just pop culture millennial distractions that just took attention away from the philosophical issues of the inadequacies of language and crisis of our communications systems. We became stuck in limbo. Cultural conversation dumbed down by useless culture wars articulated in low attention span pop culture commentary and therapy speak.

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    That exclusive content in physical games is a cruel disservice to late discoverers. “Exclusive” content should just be delayed public release content instead - something for the early adopters, but not unavailable to people years later.

    Even just the normal game, if they’re discontinuing production, should be made available as a digital purchase (including STL and print-ready files) for people coming along years later. We have the technology to not screw over potential future fans, and it’s not that expensive to keep a small website running - especially if they’re still going as a company. Looking at you, CMON Games.

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    The icing is the only part I like - I literally eat the cake separately so that I can maximize the icing-to-cake ratio in a single bite.

    This is mostly because frosting is “wet” and offsets how dry the cake is. I dislike the dryness of the cake so much I prefer to eat most of it in one go and get over it, and then enjoy the rest of the cupcake with my preferred 9:1 proportion of icing to cake. 😆

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    All billionaires are evil people that decide to accumulate wealth instead of distributing the surplus and living off enough to not have to worry about the future. All. Of. Them.

    Yes, even Taylor Swift and Gabe Newell. They have enough money that they could set 100m aside, live off that and charge break-even prices for their products so more people could enjoy them or they could charge the same thing and redirect their share of the profits into charities, they choose not to.

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      I agree and it’s pretty obvious if you think about it for a short while.

      Even religions know this, it’s just a simple fact of life.

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      You are completely correct. There are so many exits before becoming a billionaire that any normal person would take.

      Once you have millions you can live comfortable. Tens of millions and you’re set for life, you can live in luxury without ever doing another day’s work.

      Hundreds of millions and you can buy anything you ever want or need. The only reason to continue accumulating money is because you get some fucked up pleasure from it.

      You can claim you “earned it” through “working hard” but it’s a pathetic assertion. The simple fact is money is only gained at the expense of others.

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      I’m a Taylor Swift fan (not a Swifty) but I’m 100% with you.

      I pirate her music (tbf all music). I’ve gotten into heated arguments on Lemmy on how she’s one of the “good” ones.

      No such thing as a good billionaire.

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          She became a billionaire by selling tickets for more than necessary and makes the choice to continue doing so to enrich herself.

          As I said, there’s no reason she couldn’t have started doing shows that only broke even once she had enough money to live off of for the rest of her life, she decides not to do that and she decides to continue accumulating wealth we can’t even imagine.

          Remember when Musk said if he could prevent famine for 6B he would do it, he was presented with a plan and didn’t do it? All billionaires are guilty of doing the same thing and the way they accumulate the means to do that is by selling us things for more than they’re actually worth.

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        My completely unbiased exception is LeBron.

        “Ain’t no party like a Diddy party”

        So wholesome.

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      Isn’t Gabe’s net worth literally just the value of Valve? In order to cash his money out, he’d have to sell Valve.

      I don’t want him to sell Valve. I like him being in charge of Valve, he’s doing a decent job.

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        He’s got a yacht collection, six of them, costing him more to maintain a year than you and your children will ever be worth.

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        Buy, Borrow, Die. Rich people don’t sell shares. They take very low interest loans banks are more than happy to lend them. Use their shares as collateral. Then pay no taxes and only a small amount of interest. They do this forever until they die.

        It’s why everything is associated with “make number go up”.

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            Ha, my point is that we ought to distance ourselves from Reddit if we can. It doesn’t seem to exist but anyone could make it. It probably wouldn’t be a good fit for my instance, though, haha, so I shouldn’t be the one.

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              that makes sense, and I tend to use /c/ when there is an actual Lemmy community (even if I’m referring to the more general idea meant by that community) precisely for that reason - but I’m also not sure we can entirely distance ourselves from Reddit, most of our users are from Reddit and are still active on Reddit, and Lemmy is a clone of Reddit. Maybe that’s all the more reason for trying to show how we are distinct, but we also depend on our Reddit-ness as a community here, including in-jokes about subreddits and the general culture that existed on Reddit and which has partially migrated to places like Lemmy.

              And no worries about not starting the community on your instance, I think it makes more sense to create a community once there is interest rather than create another empty / dead stub of a community for the sake of completeness.

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    I posted a comment on Reddit telling about how the word racism really means a person who is a subscriber to the pseudoscience that is race.

    Tons of people downvoted me then reddit admins removed the content for harassment, of all things. (None of it made sense to me)

    I’m sad that people still think that people are different races, and to not be racist you just have to not put one over or under another, when the crux of the problem is fundamentally that people don’t get that race was made up because long ago dumb people thought that people that looked different were a literal different species but couldn’t prove it so made up the word race as a subcategory in the taxonomic system, but finally scientists realized it’s complete bullshit since it’s impossible to define, total bullshit, wildly inconsistent, and massively harmful… and I’m sad that people there literally couldn’t comprehend that, and got so mad or offended that they censured the information and thought I was arguing against the existence of systemic racism or something that only a dumb piece of shit would misinterpret.

    I linked the Wikipedia page for racism which explains all of it, including history and stuff.

    I was triggered for like a week trying to figure out what I said wrong, and honestly still kinda bothered.

    But, that is what race is: a bigoted idea that different people are different races and shouldn’t/can’t interbreed. And that’s the stupidest bullshit that MOST people don’t understand, and I’ll die on this hill, explaining that we gotta stop all being racists. Yeah, fix the problems like systemic racism, but stop thinking of people with darker or lighter skin as different - they’re just warm weather humans or cold weather humans, the same way buff or skinny humans are. Fuck. We’re all literally just humans, an amazing species, capable of adaptation and survival.

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      I think you’re right, but imo the disagreement i feels like really stem from the way you put it, as you talk about race in a biological science while they think you’re talking about ethnicity(social science?), and then there’s this odd fixation with no compromise which kinda what caused the friction, even though i think both party might agree with each other.

      Also reddit and online forum is mostly made up of weird people so idk.

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      Man… I got banned from a kink community sub because I edited my comment with a automagical editor…

      It replaced my text with gobbledygook and then was going to delete it…

      The mod came across the text said something to the extent of “this makes no sense” and banned me under their “because we can” rule.

      I sent the mod a message with links and an explanation… he came back with your original post is gone. So you are too.

      My reddit account is 14 years old…

      It bothered me for a while too… and still dones I guess since I’m here talking about it… but honestly mods are gonna mod… they are small people with a smidge of “power” you could have said hope “you folks have a great day!!” And gotten banned.

      It happens. Sucks tho

      • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Yeah I’m stopping using Reddit because of how fascist things are now around the world, in hopes of keeping access to my similarly old account because there may be a lot of porn on there, but there’s also a ton of good resources and important things.

        Maybe if things turn around in a few years, I’ll consider resume using reddit. But the more-intelligent-than-a-rock part of me knows otherwise.

        Too many people getting banned for fascist and sketchy reasons. So instead of participate there, it’s now just an archive to me.

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      You are absolutely correct: “race” is a social construct that is created along artificial lines (pigment, facial features, etc).

      The truth is that we share ~99.9% of our DNA with every other person, a gene pool so small that there is more diversity between troops of Chimpanzees.

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      We are all different, I don’t know how you can deny that. And some differences can depend on where your ancestors are from.

      If it’s not “race” then is there another way of describing it?

      In animals we call it breeds. Sounds weird.

      I think as an advanced species we should be capable of ascending beyond the descriminating behaviour needed on origin. I know it’s possible as I do that already.

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        Well the problem with trying to subdivide humans is that

        A) it’s actually really really hard to do, so hard in fact that it’s impossible and is a pseudoscience B) it basically always results in comparison. Which gets bad REALLY quickly because suddenly there is a better or worse, an inferior and superior.

        I’m not saying we aren’t different, I’m not saying that.

        But, as far as species, we ARE all the same. You, your sister, your neighbor, your great great great grandfather. We all have our differences and generic differences, but they’re infinitesimally small, we are just VERY good at telling the differences because we’re so used to staring at the same face over and over.

        There’s just so much crossover and mixing and volatility. People can change from one to the other or halfway and stuff, there’s no clarity. Like, me, for example: I’m a mix that people look at me and get very wrong 95% of the time. And then if I have kids with somebody that doesn’t have the exact same mixed heritage with me, it’s like… Wtf do you even call me?

        And then if you learn some anthropology and learn that long thin limbs and people are from hot climates close to the equator, and short ratioed people are from further (surface area to mass ratio, keeping warmth) away from the equator where it’s cold.

        Like… You can be vague and descriptive a little about it, but when you realize that reality is just that we’re all the same species, with no limits to interbreeding, it makes so much more sense.

        Let’s say you take a pale-ass white guy and strand them near the equator for ten years outdoors. Does that guy suddenly become a different breed or race or whatever you want to call it? No… it’s the same person, the same species, even if he looks different - he just adapted and his body is like “holy fuck it’s hot and I’m trying my best to not get skin cancer and the right amount of vitamins from the sun”.

        And same thing for brown skinned people (let’s just say Mexican natives). You take a young couple with darker brown skin, and move them to norway or somewhere cold with VERY little sun (latitude). They are going to lose melatonin in their skin and become paler. Let’s say they have kids and you inbreed them for a few generations. They will get progressively more pale, and start to look more adapted to the region, likely even take on regional issues.

        And the reason why is because we’re all the same type of monkey. (Not actually monkey because that’s a different offshoot, but primate; we’re great apes!).

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          I mostly agree with you. And I commend your principles.

          Some of your examples need improving is all I’ll say.

          Like sending a white guy to the equator for a decade. Okay fine, they go dark skinned. But bring him back up north and he is white again. Send a super dark skinned guy far north and he will get somewhat paler, so it works both ways. But they retain that difference because they are different.

          We have developed differences mostly based on our origin in the world, be it Asian, African, Egyptian, Indian, etc, but we are such an internationally mixed people the differences are meaningless.

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            Actually, yes, and actually, no.

            If you take a white person and put them in the equator for multiple generations, they’ll turn brown. If you try to put the result back north, it’ll take them multiple generations to get pale again.

            There isn’t really an inherent difference between us. There are small mutations or diseases that can kill, like Alzheimer’s, but those are all basically incidental. Your genes can change, that’s what evolution is.

            We ALL came from Africa, anyway, and then settled down in various places for a while, adapting. The longer people have adapted, the more they’ve adapted. But it doesn’t set anything in stone, and everybody still retains that ability to adapt.

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              That’s basically evolution lol if you go down that route then we are all plankton, animals and all.

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            There you go the key to all of this is “meaningless differences” justification to divide people, then make one group appear less than human, then exploit, steal from and murder the savages for the profit of the few.

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              Racism is a taught trait. Children aren’t racist until their peers or guardians teach them their racist world view. I think we agree on almost all points, I just don’t think it is pseudoscientific.

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          Yeah humans are actually all pretty close genetically compared to other species. And “race” as defined by society isn’t even a good predictor of genetic similarities, so for example if you take random people A and B who are black, and person C who is white, B and C will often be more closely related than A and B.

          Also as a sidenote, we are monkeys. Apes are now considered to be a type of monkey taxonomically.

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        You’ve never had infants around other infants.

        We all have the same child. They all act the same behavior is the same… Patterns are the same Etc…

        Humans don’t really start to develop in different directions and speed until they are like 18 months old.

        Our coloring and physical features might not be the same… but the basic operating system and internals are all the same across humanity.

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          Yes I agree, this is human. Just the same as all dogs wag their tail and bark. Like other posters have said, the differences are subtle and we are all more the same than different.

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      I’ve been thinking like that for a long time but recently I’ve been thinking about it in terms of internalized opposition. One of the most pernicious elements of the fight against stupid and bad ideologies is when their framings gain dominance even in the minds of their opponents.

      At some point, someone said ‘black people are blah, white people are bleh,’ and the person next to them probably said ‘What do you mean black people?’ because the concept was new but the ideology of race turned into such a common one that people who were oppressed by it were forced to consider what the powerful thought about it, like an atheist prisoner being forced to think about how to convince a Christian jailer to be less awful to them. They internalized it. And now even people who are ‘anti-racist’ often treat ‘blackness’ and ‘whiteness’ as if they were real, and not just conceptually different in the same way you can live in a different country without moving because the lines on a map change. Even as they battle the concept, they try to do it from within the system, prisoners demanding to be free without acknowledging the world outside the prison walls.

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      Lol so true dogs have hundreds of “breeds”. Then you have cate, which are all just cats, The people who will argue about their “mesothelioma short hair tuxedo chocolate” are just weirdos.

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            I’m admittedly not a cat person, however there seems to be quite a difference between a Maine Coon and a Sphynx. I agree though that long hair vs short hair of the same breed is negligible and doesn’t need to be an entirely separate breed.

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                There’s another comment in this thread that points out how slippery a slope it becomes when you try to apply breeds to humans, but that is kind of the idea isn’t it? You seem to accept it in the case of dogs. Either way, I don’t really have a hard stance either way, was just more curious of your reasoning.

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                  You assumed I accepted it at dogs just because I pointed out the irony of all cats just being of the house variety. To me dogs are dogs guess what wolfs are dogs too. You dirty ape. :)

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                  I mean, nobody’s saying dogs are different races, there’s just dogs with different phenotypic traits. When they match a certain known pattern that’s a “breed”.

                  It’s about as real as beer recipes matching certain styles. Race isn’t a real thing, it’s just sets of traits that people are used to seeing in certain populations.

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      Can’t see what your original comment was, so missing a lot of context here.

      I agree with what you said, but race as a biological thing is not how most people think of it. Most people interpret race in the context of skin color and ethnic groups, i.e. in a sociological context, and within that context it makes absolutely no sense to claim that race does not exist. It would be nice if it didn’t exist, but that’s not where we are right now as a society.

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      If you’re smart enough to know all that, you’re smart enough to know that being suspicious of differences is how our species survived, and we’re not going to evolve out of it anytime soon.

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      Fondant can be good, but it takes a hell of a baker to do so. A friend of mine’s mom made my wedding cake and the fondant she made was fucking bomb as hell. I was really skeptical of the fondant until she made the test cake, and I’m disappointed every time I have anything with fondant because I know it will never live up.

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    God damn tomato slices in everything from hamburgers to toasted sandwiches as if everyone is supposed to like raw tomato by default is pure discrimination against the non tomato eating populace.

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      Tomatoes are notorious for being impossible to remove from a burger. 6 children died last year trying to remove them. So many vegetable-adverse people put through incredible pain having to ask for it to be held. When will this injustice end?

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      Yeah. Tomato goes on pizza. Why the fuck are we not putting pineapple, something that doesn’t belong on a pizza, on hamburgers instead?

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        We do in Australia. You can get a hamburger with the lot that often includes an egg, bacon, beetroot and a pineapple ring.

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    Unless the post itself is a commentary, posters should put their own opinions in the comments, not the title or description.

    That way they can be up/downvoted and discussed separately.

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    It should be illegal for vehicles so noisy that I can hear from kilometers away to drive inside cities and close to people.