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    I’m glad that “rape” is in the headline. Too many try to sugar coat. “Sex with an underage…” etc.

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        No its because it’s a he, it’s usually “sex with a minor/student” if it’s a woman perpetrator and rape if it’s a man

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            18 days ago

            Wait is that not what you were trying to say? Systemic, institutionalized racism results in headlines that are less favorable to black folk? Which I agree with (even if it means making the headline more ’accurate’)

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    How is this not a criminal charge…

    I feel like going civil route is diluting the gravity of what actually went down.

    Where did they find 13 year old to rape?

    Where are fucking parents of these children?

    Between CEO getting executed and another elite child rapist… Who fucking rules us?

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      Who fucking rules us?

      Sociopaths mostly I’d say.

      There’s a great Tom Waits song called God’s away on business with some pertinent lyrics:

      who are the ones we left in charge? Killers, thieves and lawyers

      Great song btw.

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        That’s from Waits’ stage adaptation of the famous German unfinished manuscript Woyzeck (Voy-chek), it was a song from act 1 setting the scene in which a working class man would be toyed with and experimented on by high society and the army, driven to madness and killing his wife and himself.

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      I don’t know details of this, but when the lawyer had a press conference announcing info the first 100 lawsuits, he mentioned that a lot of the crimes were reported to authorities at the time, but for whatever reason, the crimes weren’t pursued.

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      19 days ago

      If you read the article, the alleged victim says she went to the VMAs without a ticket and started asking limo drivers if she could get into an afterparty. Diddy’s driver said she looked like what Diddy wanted.

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      The allegations are that she was hanging out by the stage door after a show. Maybe she wanted an autograph or to meet her idol? But even if she specifically sought out these men because she wanted to have sex with them, and even if her parents were wildly irresponsible, there is no excuse for drugging and raping a child.

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      19 days ago

      Jay agrees:

      “These allegations are so heinous in nature that I implore you to file a criminal complaint, not a civil one!! Whomever would commit such a crime against a minor should be locked away, would you not agree?” Carter said in a statement to NBC News. “These alleged victims would deserve real justice if that were the case.”

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      Burden of proof is much higher in a criminal case. It’s very hard to prosecute people for crimes that occurred 20+ years ago, but with a civil suit they are probably hoping for a settlement. Based on his statement, sounds like that’s not going to happen.

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        19 days ago

        And that’s why crimes should be reported when they happen so proper evidence is collected.

        I deff think Jay z did due to Diddy affiliation but this is he said, she said now.

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          Diddy was affiliated with every rapper in NYC back then. I don’t think we can assume that everyone who ever associated with him shared his predelictions.

          I think Jay probably got looped in on the lawsuit because they know he was at the party and he is filthy rich.

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            Going to bat for an accused rapist you have never met. Jay Z has made two albums with R-Kelly and toured with him immediately before his crimes came to light publicly. Dated Foxy underage, Bey likely underage. Those two and Rihanna all hanging around with them underage. Long standing links with Diddy. The idea that there’s this much smoke and no fire is hard to believe. He would have been surrounded by sketchy shit constantly while in many ways becoming the most successful in that environment. If anyone could have spoken out it was him - he didn’t.

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              That’s all random hearsay, it literally counts for nothing legally. Jay Z came from the ghetto, I’m sure he has done plenty of sketchy shit in his time.

              But like why do you seem to think Diddy and R Kelly were going around bragging about their sexual perversions? They were coworkers in the same industry; I’m sure I have plenty of coworkers who have done heinous shit in their personal lives as well. But that doesn’t even remotely imply that I knew about it or was a part of it.

              I don’t think there is very much smoke at all, I haven’t really heard any major accusations about Jay aside from this one. But also you’re falling right into the trap. They would plan to accuse him because they know random people are going to use the heuristic of “where there’s smoke there’s fire”, and generally assume that he is guilty without even a shred of evidence. They know people will see Jay Z and Diddy in the same headline about sexual assault and that’s the only piece of information they’ll remember from the whole article, assuming they even bother to read it. I’m going to bat for due process and common sense, two things which are in increasingly short supply nowadays.

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                Naive but you are entitled to your opinion and society will make their own judgements.

                The beauty here is this lapring is about donr and plebs are ready with pitch forks for pedos celebs and parasitic executives.

                You are spending a lot of time trying to defend some rich old pedo.

                Why do you care anyway?

                He ain’t on working class team at all.

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                  Not jumping up conclusions to confirm your own biases and assumptions is not naive, and the fact that you care more about whose “team” someone is on, than whether an accusation about them is actually true, exposes you as lacking integrity and real values, and not caring about actual justice.

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            The allegations are that J raped her and then Diddy raped her while an unnamed female celebrity watched.

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            I don’t think we can assume that everyone who ever associated with him shared his predelictions.

            That’s exactly what I am assuming going forward though.

            These celebrities don’t deserve any deference, they over stayed their welcome in the public sphere and somebody is disposing of them.

            It looks like they are all compromised though. So fuck 'em.

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                FAFO… The clowns are entering FO stage as society is turning on them.

                They let pedos exist among them, they are all pedos to me now.

                Gonna be a open safari on them in US the way things are going along with corporate executives haha

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              That’s exactly what I am assuming going forward though.

              And hopefully you’ll realize sooner than later that this is a flaw, not a virtue.

              Assuming guilt just because it confirms your biases is something you should be ashamed to have done.

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                  As if the comment itself wasn’t cringy enough, imagining how clever you thought you were while writing something so off-the-charts smug and condescending just magnifies it exponentially.

                  Grow up.

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        18 days ago

        Many rape victims don’t come forward until others do, if at all.

        Going up against a couple of billionaire child-rapists isn’t likely to get you anything other than slut-shamed at best. These are powerful people who can have you disappeared.

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            My understanding is that people in the industry did speak to each other about it but these media hos ain’t gonna ruin their careers over some child being raped.

            WTF did you expect?

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                Only apologist would assume that… These people clearly were doing this on the reg.

                Plus we know limo drivers procured groupies for them.

                Did Charlie sheen rape some kid in a limo?

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                  No, he can’t have done. He’s white so he had a “historical abuse incident”.

                  With Corey Haim if Corey Feldman is to be believed. Which he should be.

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      Because a criminal trial is an all-or-nothing charge, and if you fail to convince 1 juror, Jay-Z gets zero punishment for raping a 13 year old. Your odds of winning a civil trial over rape is much higher, and even if the defendant puts up a good case, you won’t walk away empty handed.

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        You can do both a criminal and a civil charge. Failing to convict on a criminal charge doesn’t mean a civil case will go the same way. See OJ for example.

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    I didn’t expect Jay-Z to get roped into this. But he’s a big time musician and they seem to have felt like they can get away with raping teenage groupies for many decades now.

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    Never meet your idols.
    I seriously stopped being a fan of any public figure because people seeking public attention are mostly off-putting at least. Then come the narcissists and psychopaths, it gets only worse.

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      Or don’t idolize idiots. Popstars and corporations washed the market so much that they are now accepted by the public as smart or cool. Not so many years ago everyone considered them trashy.

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        I never understood adults larping some fucking clown on tv and internet but here we are adult men defending some rapper clown

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      If your idol turns out to be a jerk in real life, is that their fault, or does it mean you’re just a bad judge of character? And I mean generally - not you in particular.

      Personally, I’d be more than happy to meet my idols. I’ve listened to them speak for hundreds, and in some cases thousands, of hours on podcasts. Nobody can hide their true personality for that long. I’m confident I already have a pretty good idea of what they’re like in real life. That’s also why it’s so funny when non-listeners try to convince me that they know these people better than I do.

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        Ignoring that it is possible for people to hide who they are (editing is a thing): I don’t think idolizing podcasters is the flex you think it is.

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          Some of us have been conditioned to hide our personalities all the time, until it becomes automatic… We can’t take off the mask even with effort…

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            And I imagine it’d be even easier on a podcast with a production crew to edit the material to help craft and maintain an image.

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    Why the fuck is everyone in the comments jumping to conclusions and already slamming Jay? Everything is alleged and the accuser is anonymous. Let there be a ruling by the judge then we can make conclusions no?

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        Has it occurred to you that child molesters might not be explicitly informing everyone they know about their crimes?

        I had a classmate in high school who got caught in a pedo sting operation. He himself was more of an acquaintance, but we had a mutual friend I was very close to, and we all hung out together on many occasions over the years.

        Should we both be getting accused too because we were friends with that guy? Fuck off with that nonsense, how the fuck were we supposed to know?

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          Do you know what a diddy party is?

          Do you know history of us celebrity culture that glorified raping early teens girls?

          You are arguing plausible deniability which fair but nobody is buying it.

          When did jayz started dating beyence?

          Hmmm, the man clearly like that jail bait.

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          What the fuck are you rape apologists even smoking. Diddy literally has lyrics about abusing girls. It’s never been a secret - his parties have been infamous from the beginning. This revisionism that it’s not is ridiculous. Get a real hobby 😂

          See, we date em like we hate em, see em like we don’t need em, treat em like we beat em, and never give up freedom

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            Never was a fan of these pests but I am sure they coming for me hip hop artists too…

            Really had to cut a lot of rockers too.

            This shit is disgusting, why did we ever pay them money?

            Another reason why piracy is justified. These people are pests, deny them income.

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      From the entertainer 50 cent.

      “Jay in hibernation he ain’t coming outside till this shit with puff blow over, no brunch, no lunch, No dinner. LOL 😆”

      Please let’s stop pretending when you hang out with pedophiles on the regular that it is just happenstance.

      I am sure Jay slept with less underage girls than others during Diddy parties. In fact, I heard he hardly did it more than anyone else. I would say he slept with children the least out of all the other pedophiles.

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      Replace Jay-Z with Trump and tell me if you feel the same.

      You hang out with pedos, you get painted with the same brush.

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      Because he’s a multi-Billionaire, and there is no ethical way of making a billion dollars, let alone multiple.

      You know that clip from Office Space where the neighbor is asked what he would do with a million dollars and the answer is “two chicks at the same time”? What happens if you have 1000x that much money?

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      I’m not gonna slam, but it’s disappointing to hear anyway. I never idolized him, but still thought he was a good dude.

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        How can you be disappointed when you don’t even know if it’s true?

        I can actually explain why. Refraining from judgment causes the human brain to experience cognitive strain, so people tend to settle on a judgment even without evidence, in order to reduce the emotional stress caused by being undecided between two extreme possibilities. We feel insecure when we haven’t yet made a decision, because we are exposed to attacks from both sides. By aligning ourselves with one side, we gain allies and also gain the ability to disregard the humanity of our enemies. This is a universal weakness to human rationality, and lawyers are experts at exploiting it.

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            Because the allegation is either true or false. Either it happened, or it didn’t. If it didn’t happen, then there’s no reason for you to be disappointed in Jay Z.

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        And what stops him from still being a good dude? It’s like you’re having trouble wrapping your head around this being simply an accusation. You’re basically saying everyone who associated themselves with Diddy is a bad person without knowing the depths of their relationship.

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    18 days ago

    Between this and Scientology, Millennials are going to have a tough time with Collision Course

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    I’ve completely switched to vocaloid artists. I’m tired of feeding these undeserving humans careers, I’m throwing my money at music made by artists that are sung by a fictional character who won’t ever be on trial for fucking a kid.