• Flying Squid@lemmy.worldM
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    6 months ago

    It only impacts it if you know it’s wrong and you can’t let the world know that your genitals don’t match your gender.

    Like keeping any other huge secret would impact your mental health.

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      6 months ago

      Oh yeah, but that’s like saying that having been to war is a mental disorder. Like as someone both trans and intersex, the former is an acknowledgment of an inner truth where all expressions of it are filtered through the brain at some point, but the latter idk what to tell people it’s like having a sixth toe (in the condition I’m thinking of of mine). You may not like it, and people may try to “fix” it or make me feel bad about it, but it was just there before my bottom surgery.

      In a similar vein I have a cousin with (iirc) mono X. It’s definitely had negative impacts on her life and mental health but it’s a chromosomal condition not a mental condition