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  • unn@lemmy.catoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    3 months ago

    I will tell you that at least initially you shouldn’t be looking for a partner/SO. Just try finding someone (online or real life) regardless of gender to do some activity that you both enjoy together. Don’t be a weirdo, creepy, edgy, simp, nice guy, that will help ya, but also look on how to have conversations, have some good sense of humour, and be an emotionally aware and empathetic person. Ask for and set expectations/boundaries. And try to enjoy what you’re both doing. And remember, love is not enough.














  • So it’s not that we identified as femcel and incel to each other, just later on we began talking about ourselves more openly. I made a post to talk to people while doing an activity together and she’s one of the first to message me (I didn’t even know she was female until I heard her voice). We were both very respectful to each other anyway, as I think we both took it as an opportunity to get away from our own loneliness.

    Also we’re not the usual type of “incels” (we’re both attractive), it’s more like the circumstances we’re in, what we went through, and our personalities that led to that