It’s funny because I’m really fucking vanilla. I’ve never had any need for a safe word of my own and most of the women I’ve been with never got even close to needing one, even when I tied them down and entertained them extensively. I was recently invited by a female friend that I’ve been having sexy conversations with and trying to convince to come out and play for about 15 years to come over and have sex with her while her husband watches and plays along. I’m down with that. I’ve had a couple of FFM and one FMF threesome relationships so I understand the dynamics. I suggested that she and I have a safe phrase that she could use to tell me that her husband is freaking out and it’s time for me to make an excuse and beat a hasty retreat. She said that there was no need. I expect that this is going to be an interesting first playdate.
I literally quoted those lyrics after saying that my safe word was Meatloaf. I love the song but I didn’t know about the HIMYM reference.