Boyfriend of 2 years (best friend of 6) just told me he’s started seeing someone else. No discussion. Just ghosted me for a week and hit me with this news. Thought he was my soulmate, lmao. I feel like someone just ripped out my insides. Just turned 31 this year, this shit is not any easier than when I was a teenager.
How did you make it through that first night? The second? The third? Is it really just time? I feel like my body is too old to survive another heartbreak.
I went through something similar as you last year. I’m still not completely over her, still think about her daily, but it’s a distant past now.
Whatever happens, you are still you. Whatever pain you feel, it won’t change you unless you let it to. Use it to learn something about yourself, get stronger, learn to enjoy it. But never forget that you’re in charge, and that those feelings will pass.