“I know what NOT to do, what should I actually DO?”
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Prologue: yes, you are allowed to be annoyed by all this dumb shit
  • barberousse@lemmy.ca
    2·
    1 year ago

    To be charming as a guy, consider these tips:

    1. Good Hygiene: Maintain proper personal hygiene, including daily showers and dental care.

    2. Active Listening: Pay attention when people talk to you, ask questions, and show genuine interest in their thoughts and feelings.

    3. Body Language: Be aware of your body language and maintain open, approachable posture.

    4. Socialize: Engage in social activities, join clubs, attend events, and meet new people.

    5. Flirting: Practice light-hearted banter and conversation skills with everyone, not just those you’re interested in romantically.

    6. Respect Boundaries: Avoid making anyone feel uncomfortable by respecting their personal space and boundaries.

    7. Be Confident: Confidence is attractive, but don’t come across as arrogant.

    8. Compliments: Give sincere compliments when appropriate, but don’t overdo it.

    9. Empathy: Show empathy and understanding towards others’ perspectives and experiences.

    10. Be a Good Listener: Remember details about people’s lives and interests, and use this information in future conversations.

    11. Take Initiative: Don’t be afraid to initiate conversations or ask someone out, but do so respectfully.

    12. Stay Positive: Maintain a positive attitude and avoid negative or offensive topics.

    Remember, charm comes from being genuine and considerate, so be yourself while striving to make meaningful connections with others.