• go $fsck yourself@lemmy.world
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    “Annoying” is subjective, and there is no rule against being perceived as being “annoying” in the community rules.

    The only rule is to be respectful, which they did not follow at all, then tried to hide it.

    Response to edit: yes, it was edited after it was brought up. The modlog is public, there’s no need for me to try to hide anything like they tried to do. If you’re going to try to give me shit for that, why do they get a free pass?

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      Nothing they did appears to have negatively altered the quality of the comments or discussion.

      Respect is also subjective. Your initial post seemed to be mocking and disrespectful for no apparent reason. I’d argue the comment section is more respectful with your remarks gone.

      Objectively, it appears they were right to delete their account. You’re stalking posts mentioning their site and complaining about this nothing burger.

      I would also distance myself from pedantic harrassers and focus on literally anything else productive if I were them.

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        Are you Liam in disguise or something? Why are you trying to make up shit like I’m “stalking” posts mentioning their site? I’m a user of Lemmy just the same as anyone else and when I see posts that bring up this toxic person’s site, I can easily help inform people of their gross manipulative behavior.

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          There isn’t even some grand “toxic” or “manipulative” coverup. The mod deleted the whole interaction because it was pointless and rude from both of you. It added nothing.

          The jannie took out the trash and you’re still harrassing them about the subjectivity of annoyance and respect. Y’know who makes that subjective choice? The mods.

          I have no ties to this, but I am in opposition to this neat little narrative you appear to be creating tossing out buzzwords like toxic, gross, manipulative without evidence to back it up.

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            I’ve provided plenty of evidence, and there is more to be found if you feel like you need it. Do you really expect me to provide an exhausting dissertation on every single detail of the situation? I provided just enough to back up my claims. If you feel you need more, that’s on you and it’s available for you to find. That does not warrant your baseless accusations.

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                So, because I copied my messages from before explaining the situation in an attempt to educate people about the toxic behavior of the website owner? Should I have wrote a whole new comment instead? Should I just keep quiet and let toxic people not reap the consequences of their actions?

                Okay, bud.

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                  Each time burying the lead that the mod abuse was against you.

                  I didn’t even know who you were until I realized the username in the screenshot matched.

                  Have you ever heard that there’s 3 sides to every story? I’ve seen yours. I think it’s a whole lotta nothing.

                  Your inability to let it go after months… It all tells me everything I need to know about why this means so much to you, and why you’re still doing this.

                  Educator…okay.

                  This keeps you up at night.

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                    Lol your argument is that the mod abuse is somehow okay because it wasn’t against someone else?

                    Why should any amount of mod abuse be okay, forgotten, or ‘let go’?

                    You’ve spent way too much time arguing a shitty position that really has no effect on you. Then you say I need to ’ let it go’?

                    The irony is too sad to be funny. I feel sorry for you.