• SamXavia@southampton.social
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    3 months ago

    As an autistic person I feel like i’m over staying my welcome sometimes, the easiest way to confront me is be like “hey, great to see you but I have other stuff to do. We should do this again”

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      3 months ago

      I’m not autistic but I do have a lot of fear about over staying my welcome. It has gotten to the point where I would politely ask if I over stayed or if my welcome has expired. I find that being direct is the fastest and most efficient for both parties.

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        3 months ago

        Yes that can be helpful if you are the one feeling you are overstaying, a good amount of the time people are really nice and honest about things so that’s really helpful