It should be within reasonable range, like e.g. you won’t wake up as a Yedi or Superman tomorrow and world hunger won’t be solved just in a few days, etc

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    If I can add my two cents, an organic meet cute is overrated. We all want that cute “we met in a bookstore and bonded over favorite authors” story but it has so little bearing on the actual relationship. My guy and I met on tinder and had a very original first date at a brewery lol. But four years in and that part is inconsequential.

    Take that step and see what happens! Regardless, it sounds like you’re headed that direction, so best of luck!

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      See, I never really have meet cutes. I do what you did and got no where. I’ve met loads of guys and girls on dating apps and they all ghost.

      I don’t get the hate for meet cutes outside of they are hard to achieve and take lots of patience.

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        It’s not “hate” for meetcutes, it’s just resistance to the idea that a cute origin story has any substantial effect on the future of the relationship.

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          I mean, its a common thing I see that people seem to try and discourage. Seems like people don’t like it in general for some reason.