• linkhidalgogato@lemmy.ml
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    6 months ago

    if that was what u meant then there is not reason to say what u said, everyone knows everyone can be aggressive, according to u ur previous comment is basically u saying “the sky is blue”. be honest with urself u know what u meant.

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      6 months ago

      Bruh, we’re in sma thread where someone denied the possibility of men being irrationally aggressive. I’m merely counting and saying that, no, that is a thing that happens sometimes. If they had also claimed women can’t be irrationally aggressive I would have addressed that, too.

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        6 months ago

        no from the look of the modlog that is definitely a lie, again be honest with urself and me i like honesty too.

        pretty sure op said that this is extremely rare and that there are 2 sides to a story.

        also im not convinced that in the same context but with women switch in u would have said the same that sounds like bs, like if someone made a comic complaining about abuse from women and someone in the comment said something like “this is sexist and talking about this is a distraction from real sexism because the overwhelming majority of people who are abused are actually women so this is just a tactic and people who talk about it dont actually care” u would be the exact kinda person who would agree.

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          6 months ago

          Dude you just made-up a whole-ass situation and told me what I’d do. I’m dying over here.

          I’m going to have to assume you’re talking about women abusing their male partners, since it would a clean gender flip for that sort of thing. That shit is a real problem! Male victims of abuse routinely get laughed out of police stations when they try and report their partner, and that’s if the cops don’t accuse them of being the real abuser.

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              6 months ago

              Oh I never bothered to refute you calling me a liar, but this is the top comment in this thread. That’s what everything is based around.

              https://lemmy.today/comment/8380045

              I dunno if you can see it through the mod log or whatever, but the person was basically like “yeah, that happened.”

              Anyway, being disingenuous is an exhausting way to live life. You gotta keep track of all the bullshit you’re spewing so you can keep up the facade. It’s a million times easier to just be a straightforward person. Nevermind that that’s just a shitty way to bem