• eatthecake@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Have you considered being upfront and honest about your feelings? Why are you trying to piece together signals instead of just saying you’re interested?

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      7 months ago

      What made you think they’re not being upfront and honest about their own feelings?

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        7 months ago

        That they desctibe themselves as trying to decipher signals. If they said upfront that they were interested and asked how the woman felt they would presumably get some kind of answer. Ghosting is a pretty clear signal too.

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          7 months ago

          Weird presumption. Someone giving you signals you need to decipher says nothing about how frank you’ve been with them. Some people just give you weird vague signals no matter how directly you ask them.

          Ghosting is a pretty clear signal too.

          lol